Curses and Kisses

Once there was once a man fell in love with a woman, by that time, it was in the 80's.

They worked in a same factory, the man dealt with machine, while the lady managed the typing.

Both of them were in their 20th.

The man is a talented labour, working hard and smart, against gossips, drawbacks, and even corrupted leaders, listening to noisy mechanical printings every night.

While the lady faces technical problems with early editions of computers, green words on the black screen, hearing tick tack non stop everyday.

This couple was later in courtship, and got married, eventhough the man was poor, the lady came from a well founded family. Still they both love each other and willing to sacrifice till the end.


After 6 years, they had tried so hard to give birth a baby boy. He was a charming one, filled with luck and joy. That little child attracted jealousy and excitements to his relatives, that encouraged them to have their own new born.

...That child is me...



That's what I know from my mum and dad. I was raised with care and lovely people around. But people change. We faced many troublesome facts, encounter every worst possibilities.

Every family have their own problems, and people tend to get agitated by them.

Worst comes to worst, they will try to break the relationship between cousins or relatives. No question ask.


There's once, my youngest uncle, annoyed my mother, and she couldn't stand it anymore. She shouted so loud, that he was forced to leave our house. Since he's a 40+ man, still he couldn't get a proper job, so he always stay in our house for quite a while. Until now, he's nearly 50, still single and almost bold. The only good thing that he got a proper job (don't know whether he'll change another job again), and he doesn't dare to 'kacau' my mum again. Haha~

My mum and dad got into a fight so many times while I was a little boy, cold wars mostly, because they don't want to show me the truth of house war.

However, the catastrophe came when my mum found something in my father's Celcom bill. A same number came across a few times. Then she tried to call. It was one of my parents' friend, a married woman.

I know her too. My mum was so jeolous that she had a fight with my father. She even asked me: "What if we divorce, who will you follow?"

I was starting to stress out when I was in my secondary school. I really care for them that I rather be the one who sacrifice than my parents' divorce. I thought about it everyday, talked to them when I have the chance. Pray to Lord when I was nervous.

Glad that was over, and it was about 5 to 6 years ago. They are still as happy as usual.



Every couple must come to a fight, to know more about each other. Seriously, a couple who doesn't fight doesn't mean they are very happy with each other.

Sometimes, there are dark secrets which hide in one another that lurk into our lives and we may not know about it. Unless the other half doesn't care, still it'll become a poison sooner or later.

There are reports showed that a small fight can be a good patch for better relationships, while big and insulting fights are not recommended as those will have long term effects on the rest of their lives.

I can't guarentee that I'll not let my Goddess cry or enraged, cause it's a part of our social life. But I'll try my best to talk to her more than get into an argument.

This is life, and so must we challenge whatever comes into our territory-of-life, and there's always Yin & Yang so everything will be balanced.


P.S. I start to miss my family... haiz... Wanna go back home.

P.S.S. This is just a small part of my hardship, the rest you have to wait.