Maturity

Have you wondered why you are not matured enough? But is there a limit or measures for it? No.

The true maturity comes from what you have learned and thoughts, based on your own experiences. We, human, can learn so much to improve ourselves. Maturity includes discipline, knowledge and life experiences.

From what you have gained from the surroundings and people, you can see that we all learn from mistakes and past. The more failure we get, the more mature we tend to be. But only after you can take over the events and guide yourself to success.

Discipline is a must have in our lives to control our attitudes and habits for helping ourselves in avoiding unnecessary 'additional' events and problems in our daily lives. This can really come in handy for the people who likes to learn the true meaning of maturity. SO laziness have to be controlled to become more mature.

Wisdom is also one of the key to success and maturity. We must think for certain amount of time to give out conclusions and decisions to just a minor stuff, and this takes a lot of patience. So, now do you think that being mature is an impossible mission? No.

People who tend to look smart and mature sometimes gives themselves the hard times because sooner or later, their real image will show up to the public and their friends. Seriously, acting like a matured person won't make you look good.

Knowledge comes from newspapers and books. Please read as much as you can to follow up the trends and solutions for maturity like relationships and social studies. This will fit in a great portion of advantage in maturity.

Keep on communicating with others well to learn more about your friends, neighbours, enemies (if you have). Those you hate and those you like will probably give you something in return as in experience or the way we talk. Learning new body language will surely give you some advantages in social skills and suitable sayings to fit in some special events like arguing/ fighting, praising, confronting new people, and comforting your friends.

The people you choose to be with is also a showing that you are matured enough to handle and befriend with the others. Your decisions are basically from what you have learned and experienced from the past or from other people's knowledge. For instance, from your friends, you know that the person you are 'targeting' as your boy/ girlfriend, from what he/ she like and attitude towards others. Maybe a little bit mix up with your pass experience with your ex-es, for what you have learned from them.

Matured people don't want to expose themselves much in the crowd for most of the times and most are boring lads who don't mix with new people much. They only depends much on luck to have a boy/ girlfriend than grouping around 'mindless' people who only enjoy the fun of doing stupid stuff as their pastimes.

From what other people said, that I'm matured. I do think like a matured guy, I do do stuff like a matured guy, my attitude is kind of strict and disciplined at times, but still I have much to learn from the others, the more you are matured, the less fun you tend to have sometimes. This fun is the mix of good and bad, but you may get some decent memories from it. I have failed to get my first girlfriend, because I'm a softhearted guy, helping the girls around does give me the credits but they always care for a boyfriend who can stay beside them for a long time, daily - which I can't do, unless we are officially boy-girlfriends, still it's hard. They can get my blessings but what can I get? Appreciations? Gratitude? That's fine with me. No blessings at the moment though. Helping is one thing, plagiarizing is another. I'll help only if necessary because I want them to be independent as their on. I don't want to involve cheating to make someone my girlfriend, better make myself clear to the crowd.