Virginity

Virginity....
That's what mostly boys want from the girls. I can say that us, boys, like to have virgin girlfriends and wives. But have you wonder why the boys have sex with their girlfriends and later, saying that he'll be responsible and then dump them... along... aside?

In Christian's rule, 'Virgins' are considered as holy as the church it's self. The body is kept for their true marriage in the church, with official certificates, until they are really bound together with love and sacrifices they shall give to each other as husband and wife... eternally. This is true.

Think of it, whether you are a religious person or not, you give out your 'virgin' to your boyfriend (serious cases with girls at the most), then after the 'fun' and 'romantic' night, you ask your boyfriend, 'you have to be responsible for what you did to me oh... '. Then they start to promising each other with sweet talk and cuddling together as if they are married.

The second day/ the rest of the year...
'You bastard! How can you betray me! I am so loving you and dedicated myself to you... but now you dump me and fall for another girl!?'

Or...
*Slap!* *Staring at the boy* 'Who is she!? Why are you with her?' Then starts the drama...

There are big chances that this case happens and imagine that this happens to YOU!

This is moral and dignity I'm talking about! You guys don't enjoy these kind of immoral act to the girls, as things can come to you 'accidentally', then you find yourself get killed by the fathers or the ex-girlfriends themselves. Revenge is hard to prevent when people get their tensions high, and emotions take complete control of him/ her.

'Shotgun marriage' is the term used by pregnancy before marriage, starting when a farmer taking a shotgun, pointing at his young daughter's boyfriend, forcing him to take full responsibility and marry his daughter ASAP. Things doesn't ends here, the rest of their lives might end up in chaos, fighting, cheating, hurting, and killing.

People... imaginary about having fun with sex can't be prevented, but discipline is a must have to make yourself clear that these 'fun' can ruin not only your life but others as well. Put yourself up with strict principles and rules when falling in love are the matured love that I want to have. The opened minded era that misleads the people around, is now making the girls look like hookers and prostitutes, only the difference is that they are not paid by money but charming acts or seductions. More girls in the western countries are being treated like bitches and sex mates by the boys, making the countries fail in moral education... epic failure...

The 'Playboy' magazines are now using girls like 'prostitutes' to make them look famous and sex-fun when their naked bodies are exposed to the public. I mean, come on, you girls look even better when you are virgins and make your husband happier when they found out that you are still a virgin, and you look so pretty and sexy in front of them. This is the fact.

There are a few times that I found out that friends like to give 'condoms' as presents to their friend either in a birthday or special events.

'Are you encouraging your friend to have sex before marriage or you are out of your mind?' this is what my mind pops out when I knew this happened. 'This is not funny at all... You might get your friend killed...one day...'

Boys will definitely try to use their 1st condom on the girl they like, and this ends up bringing a serious tragedy... Sex before marriage, pregnancy before 18, even worst... RAPE...

40% that a condom will fail, so does the prevent-pregnant pills which fail at 30%...

Boys and girls out there, before you have your first boyfriend/ girlfriend, think about anything that can possibly happen to you when you have sex with them... as I said... this is just the beginning of lust... and ending with unhappily ever after...


God bless to those who are wise... and those who listen to the wise...